Don’t Hate her Because She is beautiful

16 Aug

Tall with perfect skin & with the perfect figure. The moment she walked into the hall everyone started to talk about her. Men adored her & women despised her. Speculations made that she will climb to the top within months! Women with looks will be labeled as the sl*ts or the Biat*h because people thought she succeeded or got promoted by manipulate people with her charm. Is she a witch or an elegant beautiful woman with capability & intelligence?

I am trying to stay as neutral as possible when comes to this topic. I realized that looks do play a part in career too. It’s a booster. It’s a bonus. To several people, looks play important role for a quick promotion to the top. Few use that as a “weapon” for their own benefit. Woman are blessed with charm & beauty that easily utilized to manipulate their way up to the top.

If you are a boss, which one will you recommend for a promotion?

Candidate A

She is a Degree Graduate.
28 years old single woman.
Punctual at work.
Never fail to meet deadlines.
Proactive & responsible.
A team player and sociable among other colleagues.
Fast learner.
Always strive for the best in all assigned tasks.
Possess excellent problem-solving skills.

or
Candidate B

She is a Degree Graduate.
28 years old single woman.
Punctual at work.
Never fail to meet deadlines.
Proactive & responsible.
A team player and sociable among other colleagues.
Fast learner.
Always strive for the best in all assigned tasks.
Possess excellent problem-solving skills.

If you are the boss, who will you choose?

Guess most of us know who will be promoted. It seems that looks do play a part in work place. Nevertheless, to all plain-Jane out there,don’t be despair with the fact! Work harder than the privileged being as I still believe plain looking people still could excel in their life too.

Hate her for being more street-smart than you frustrated you.
Frustration creates motivation.
Motivation creates determination.
Determination creates productivity.
Productivity creates improvement.
Improvement creates results.
Results creates performance.
An impressive performance creates PROMOTION.

Good looking colleagues get to the top by 3 steps. Plain-looking girls still can get to the top by 20-steps. Doesn’t matter who’s get to the top, all of will eventually be there anyway. Regardless how you looked like. It’s a matter of how you get there. The right way or the dirty way.It’s the journey that counts. Nobody could take away your priceless knowledge through experience,unless you are stupid enough to teach them.

To the all plain-looking & sad women out there, don’t be despair because your blinded-biases boss do not appreciates you. Take this frustration and turned it around & make good use of it to motivate you to improve. Ignore all the office politics that going on there but don’t play a deaf/blind too. Confused? What I mean is, get to know but focus more on your career.

If corporate world doesn’t suits you, leave!
Be a entrepreneur instead. Be a mogul than be a slave.
Nobody choose the destiny for you,you choose it yourself.
Sounds familiar huh?
Sad to say, most people just ignore it anyway.

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One Response to “Don’t Hate her Because She is beautiful”

  1. kaioucat August 17, 2009 at 5:56 am #

    I believe it's true – with all things being equal, beautiful people USUALLY live easier lives. No matter how much we try to be fair, the imbalanced treatment is always there. Once I was very slim and people around me seemed so much more interested in me. Now that I have gone back to my usual weight (read: fat), well…they don't mistreat me or anything but I can really feel the difference. Could it be my own psychology? Could it be due to the change in environment? Partly, maybe. But the appearance factor is definitely there. People are shallow by nature, I suppose xD.

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